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Honestly: would you openly date and marry a person confined to wheelchair?
The question here is directed at non-wheelchair users (which include myself).
You may be one of those politically correct parents who is not expressing any concerns about your child's new relationship openly.
But if you are like most people, there is a part of you that doesn't like it. Why should she have to date a disabled guy in a wheelchair?
They forget that no relationship is smooth sailing as the years go by. In the long run, it doesn't matter what your physical appearance is like. Berit "Brit" Brogaard is an author of The Superhuman Mind and the author of That I would become romantically involved with someone in a wheelchair.
I would choose a romantic partner who's mental and physical state was near mine to increase the odds of us aging together in similar fashion, and decreasing the odds of long term complexities in the health arena that are the reality of confinement to a wheelchair over the long term (which is a way bigger deal than this statement "it doesn't matter what your physical appearance is like".) That's a very sensible reason--one that my peers (although I am NOT several decades younger than you) had not expressed when I asked them. After a couple of dates he had a problem discerning me, his date, from a caregiver.
Most of the people I asked had a problem with external perception or sex. Before long he was saying get this, do that, I can't reach that.
Some of you may reply "yes," because it is in line with your ideology, because it would be politically incorrect to say "no," or because you are happily married, and there is no conceivable chance (in your mind) that you will ever date again. If you were single and went to a party that was "happening," and you spotted an attractive girl in a wheelchair (or guy in a wheelchair), would you consider chatting her up?
Or would the very thought of hitting on her make you feel embarrassed, not least if you were in the presence of your friends?